Well, It is Christmas and since I haven’t written a darn thing since I returned home in early October, I figure its time to say SOMETHING about What’s Right with America. I think it is a great time and place to tell the world what is important to me at Christmas. After all this is MY blog…..so there!
I went to church yesterday and of course the Church focusses on the religious meaning of Christmas and downplays the commercial aspects. I’m good with that actually. Once you get to be an old fart (speaking from experience) the “getting” part of Christmas loses its luster. The giving part is really fun though, especially if friends/family and little ones are involved. Nothing like the look on a kids face when he or she actually FINDS the Pony they were sure was there for them. (All right, Pony, Video game, gadget, clothing item or whatever makes them smile). But the giving experience is really more than putting some materialistic desire at the fingertips of those you love. For me the “giver”, it is the twinkle of happiness, however misguided, childlike, or fleeting, enjoyed by the “givee”. Yeah, in alot of cases it is materialistic on the givee’s part, especially the young ones, but it is far more than that as I observe. I make the event special for myself.
Christmas can put people off a bit because religion and even spirituality are deeply personal things, at least to me. I see the concept of the birth of the Son of God on Earth as an opportunit for redemption. Not just religious redemption. I am convinced that the world has become almost too worldly to focus on religious redemption. I think that is a big part of the problem, i.e. not enough reliance on the “other worldly” aspects of life in our daily existence. When I put Christmas in context in a worldly manner that works for me, I mean in a tangible way that I can demonstrate so others can observe, experience, and hopefully appreciate, I see the event of Christmas as an opportunity for a “Do Over” from the past.
New years resolutions are great but meaningless to me. So what is a new calendar year? It means I have to ruin about a months worth of bank checks with the wrong date scratched out, initialed, and correctly printed. It means I can say in early February, “WOW! Those didn’t work out.”
So what is Christmas in my worldly opinion? It is an opportunity to look over the past year or years of life to see what I can improve. Now I know all the people in my life can do a lot more to improve themselves in my opinion, (that is a joke, OK?) but the reality of life is we all have a primary focus and it just may be on the “monkey in the mirror” as I told my little ones when they first glimpsed themselves in a silvered glass panel hanging on the wll in the hallway. One thing I have learned in my short but rich life, is that anything that “bugs” me is not with the other person or situation. It is that I allow the “bug” to live in my head. It’s all about me, always was and always will be. Only I can prevent my own pain and discomfort. Only I can provide for my own reasonable happiness, serenity and contentment. So I do my best to stop looking around for my “White Knight”. He’s right here, in my boots. Shaazamm!
Do you know why I think Christmas happens every year for me? I think it is because I am an imperfect being. (Imperfect?…That is an adjective of amazing understatement describing me.) I need regular and frequent chances to try again to “get it right” in life. I’ll never get enough “Do overs” on this planet, but at Christmas, I see the one time of the year that somehow, somewhere, I can be reminded that the past does not have to be the future. I can behave better, treat others better, be more gracious in the face of defeat, be less barbaric in the face of victory, be more understanding in the face of adversity, especially other’s adversity because God has given me precious little adversity in life. (Thank You God!) The image on the cross depicts someone who gave his life so that ours would be better. We celebrate it every year because try as we might, we lose sight of the objective. That is to create a better life for ourselves using the tools and faith that God gave us. It’s an endless effort and needs renewing at least once per year. (Daily in my case cause I’m a slow learner.)
You know what else? I can choose to treat myself better too. Gosh knows most of us are our own worst critics. That’s just WRONG in so many ways. Hey, it’s Christmas and we can try to change that in the future can’t we? But alas, back to my point that Christmas is not only a religious holiday on the calendar, it is an annual event in my life that reminds me all is neither lost or won. The battle rages on and the outcome, although frequently in doubt, is viewed by a force so spectacular as to be without adequate description. So next year at this time, I get to look at the my concept of Christmas and again review my score of the last 60 something years and try to put some more points on the board for the Good Guys. I think I can do that. As a matter of fact, why wait till next year? I’ll start right now by publishing this letter.
Merry Christmas to all my friends, readers, and of course family.
PS WHAT’S RIGHT WITH AMERICA is that I have this opportunity to fearlessly tell anyone who wishes to listen, just how blessed I am.